What’s Your Apartment Hosting Style? (And How to Set the Vibe)

There’s something about September that invites people to gather again. Whether it’s football watch parties, dinner with neighbors, or just catching up after summer travel, fall is the perfect season to open your apartment and share your space with your people.

But not all hosting looks the same. Some go all-in with themed snacks and playlists. Others keep things casual with a BYOB invite and a few extra folding chairs. Whatever your vibe, your RPM apartment is the ideal backdrop to make it happen.

Here are a few apartment hosting styles—and how to bring yours to life.

1. The Laid-Back Game Day Host

You’re not about big to-dos, but you are prepared. You’ve got the biggest TV in the friend group, the softest couch, and a rotation of crowd-pleasing snacks that never misses. You don’t need to over-plan—people come to your place because they feel at ease.

How to set the vibe:

-Maximize flexible seating with floor cushions, poufs, or even a few dining chairs pulled in from the kitchen

-Keep food simple and self-serve: think sliders, dips, wings, or even just an epic chip-and-dip setup

-Let the game soundtrack do the work—no need to curate a playlist when the energy’s already built in

With open layouts and spacious living rooms in many RPM apartments, you can easily accommodate a small crowd without feeling cramped.

2. The Pinterest Overachiever

You love an aesthetic moment. Your parties are curated down to the playlist and the drink stirrers. Your friends know that when you host, there will be a theme—and it will be elevated. You find joy in the details, and your apartment reflects it.

How to set the vibe:

-Layer lighting—table lamps and string lights can work together to make even a casual gathering feel thoughtful

-Create a grazing board centerpiece (yes, even for brunch) and don’t forget the labels or themed cocktail

-Curate a playlist that fits the energy—and the season

From modern backsplashes to elegant countertops and designer finishes, RPM luxury apartments give your hosting style the perfect foundation for an unforgettable (and Instagrammable) night in.

3. The BYOB Balcony Vibes Friend

You’re the spontaneous one. Your idea of a perfect hang is texted out the same day, and everyone knows it’ll somehow be just right. You create a relaxed, come-as-you-are environment with a few string lights, a couple drinks, and maybe a Bluetooth speaker playing your favorite playlist.

How to set the vibe:

-Use your balcony or patio space to extend the living area, or turn your dining nook into a mood-lit gathering zone

-Offer minimal snacks (chips, olives, or a quick cheese plate) and let guests bring what they love

-Keep extras on hand—cozy throws, floor cushions, or folding chairs can go a long way

Many RPM communities feature private balconies, rooftop lounges, or outdoor courtyards that are perfect for laid-back evenings. With thoughtfully designed shared spaces, you don’t need a big home to host a big vibe.

4. The Cozy Night-In Crew

You’re all about quality time. No pressure, no dress codes—just soup simmering on the stove, warm lighting, and maybe a board game or two. You create the kind of space where people exhale when they walk in and feel like they never want to leave.

How to set the vibe:

-Lean into comfort food—homemade chili, baked mac and cheese, or a big pot of tea sets the tone

-Offer a few conversation-friendly games or just let the night unfold naturally

-Use layered blankets, soft lighting, and your coziest playlist to invite people to settle in

With quiet, well-designed interiors and energy-efficient climate control, RPM apartments for rent make it easy to set a cozy atmosphere year-round. Whether you're hosting two guests or ten, your apartment is the ideal space to relax and reconnect.

Hosting Your Way—Every Time

Whether you’re the type to plan the perfect grazing board or simply open the door and let the night unfold, your hosting style is part of your personality—and your apartment should support it.

At RPM Living, our thoughtfully designed communities give you the space, flexibility, and comfort to host your way. So whether you’re serving game day wings or pouring wine on the balcony, you’ll always have a home that fits your vibe. Explore RPM luxury apartments across the country and find the perfect fit today by checking out our Communities page.